I have to say that I’m really happy with how things are working out with Cat.
We don’t have any real commitment to each other, which sometimes is strange for me. But it’s also what I seem to need at this point in my life. I don’t think I could really do a major commitment now.
She’s a real friend first of all, which is really good and appreciated. She knows about what’s going on with my kids and understands why parenting is so important to me because she’s a parent too.
We’re also unbelievably sexually compatible, which is something I’ve honestly never experienced with anyone else before. I’m used to more awkwardness about sex and expressing desire.
I don’t think this will be a permanent thing but I am really enjoying it while it lasts. I know that she cares about me. Even though my sleep schedule annoys her, she also understands it. If I’m up much earlier than usual, she says that I need to get more sleep. She also truly listens to me and therefore she also understands which things are going to result in me needing to recover and get more sleep.
Often she accepts that about me even when I don’t and I’m tempted to try to push through my limits. She knows by now what will happen if I do and tries to discourage me from doing it.
Plus I’m finding out that I am really very sexual and confident in myself sexually. That’s a completely new thing for me and it’s honestly really nice. Overall I’m just really happy for what I have with her.